Ae Ae

welcome to my world 

Nineteen things I’ve learned before I turned nineteen.
1. Always carry $5 and a lighter with you (even if you don’t smoke).
2. Ask every person you meet how their day is going. Genuinely ask with the soul intention of learning how their day is. Ask the coffee shop employee. Ask the person next to you in line at Walmart. Ask your distant friend. Ask everyone.
3. Take many photos of yourself. Take photos of yourself when you’re happy. Take photos of yourself when you’re sad. Take photos of yourself because there are millions of trees in the world, and we all look at the same sky, but there is only one of you.
4. Stay in contact with your parents. Try not to hate them. They are the reason you have the ability to feel anything at all. Try not to hate your parents.
5. Opening your skin will not set your demons free. Open your heart. Open your mind. Open your hands.
6. Nobody knows anybody completely. That’s okay.
7. Be gentle, but be aggressive. Take a stand. Nobody hears your voice if you stay silent.
8. Respect everybody. We are all humans trying to survive. We all deserve respect.
9. Wearing black will ALWAYS make you feel better about yourself.
10. Always give tips, whether it be a couple extra dollars or a piece of mind. You never know how much you could be helping someone.
11. Change is the only thing consistent in life. Do not allow that bother you. Embrace chance and move with life, whichever direction it chooses to take you.
12. Smile often. Smile at strangers. Smile at your friends. Smile when nobody is looking and you’re alone in your bedroom. Smile when somebody is rambling to you.
13. Body image means nothing. Your body is merely just a seatbelt in the car. Your body is here to protect you. You choose the direction you go, and your body will not hold you back. Only you can hold yourself back.
14. Don’t hold grudges. Don’t allow yourself to hate anybody. Forgive them. Learn to love them for the person you never got to see them to be. Believe that a beautiful human exists in that person. Wish them well.
15. Drink orange juice. Lot’s of it.
16. Don’t allow the opinions of others to choose your destiny. We are all simply trying to live our own life.
17. Sing all the time. Sing off key. Sing in a silly voice. Sing like you’re on stage. Sing no matter who is around. Singing is breathing for the soul. Sing.
18. Take time to think. Write your feelings down. Write letters to the people you love. Texting is overrated and not as heartfelt as a nice handwritten letter.
19. Live for yourself. Breathe for yourself. Do everything in your life for nobody but you. This is your life. This is it.

—(via bl-ossomed)

(Source: thinly, via fallenforbands)

SELOSA

ang babae madaling magselos. May makita lang siyang kachat mo na babae, katawanan, or kadikit nag seselos na agad yan. Oo nakakasakal diba? world war 4 na pag nag selos. Pero hindi niyo ba natanong bakit sila nag seselos? Bakit minsan ganyan sila ka tindi mag selos?

Ang mga babae takot lang talaga silang mawala ka. Gusto nila lumayo ka sa mga babae na malalandi kase alam nila wala na silang magagawa pag na fall ka na sa iba. Lalo na sa mga magagandang babae.Oo hindi sila maganda pero hindi naman lagi ang itsura tinitingnan eh.Ano mas gusto mo? May maganda ka ngang gf pero napaka dami naman nka abang at naghahabol tapos siya naman ineentertain or yung babaeng tama lang pero mahal na mahal ka at grabe effort niya and sobrang alaga sa relationship niyo. ANG SINSABI KO LANG NAMAN KAYA SILA NAG SESELOS KASE MAHAL NA MAHAL KA NILA AT TAKOT SILANG MAWALA SAYO.

FOREVER

Totoo ba ang forever?

Oo. Sige sabihin niyong hindi kase mag asawa na ngang nag sumpaan ng forever nag hihiwalay pa.
Minsan guys ang kailangan lang natin is yung hindi gigive up. Wala akong sinasabi na may perfect relationship at madali ang forever. Napaka hirap nyan pero sa taong mahal mo kakayanin mo. Mahal mo eh, minsan sa sobrang pag mamahal natin ang dami na nating nagagawa na akala mong hindi natin kaya date. Napaka hirap kase akala mo going strong kayo tas biglang ldr tas kung ano ano pa. Pero guys challenges lang yan para malaman niyo kung gano niyo ka mahal ang isat isa. Yung mga away na yan its just to make things clear between the two of you.

Minsan nawawala ang forever kase yung isa bumibigay. Minsan mali concept ng forever. Minsan nagloloko yung isa. Dun lang nawala yung forever pag mali yung taong sinasabihan natin.

Pano mo malalaman if tama yung taong pinagsabihan mo?

Yung taong ready gumawa ng kahit anong himala para sayo. Yung kahit sobrang hirap na kinakaya niya parin. Yung tinatry niya lahat para lang sa relationship niyo. Halos lahat lahat ginagawa na niya dahil sa takot niyang mawala ka. Grabe grabe alaga at pag aalala at lalo na selos. Guys ang selos, reminder lang yan na takot na takot siyang mawala ka saknya. YUNG TAONG HINDING HINDI SUSUKO SAYO KAHIT SOBRANG HIRAP NA KAHIT GANO KA PA KA DIFFICULT IHANDLE.


forever totoo yan, for a life time. Kase hindi naman tayo forever sa mundo. Ang forever makukuha niyo lang yan if kahit anong sumubok, lumandi, away or kung ano pang kamalasan ang mangyare magiging matatag parin kayo..

Kase guys away lang yan, ibaba niyo pride niyo kase mas mahalaga ang taong mahal mo kesa sa pride mo. Ipagpapalit niyo ba ang taong mahal mo na nagpapasaya at nag cocomplete sayo sa sobrang laki mong pride? Diba diba.

Yung mga lumandi sa taong mahal mo, tanongin mo kung ano pag kukulang mo at kung bakit niya yun nagawa. Patawarin mo kung kaya mo kase isang kupal lang yan sa relationship niyo kaya wag kayong mag papasira.

Selos? GUYS PLS LANG WAG KAYONG MAG SAWA KASE MAG SESELOS SIYA! Takot na takot siyang mawala ka kaya siya nagkakaganyan. Mas maganda ang babaeng selosa kesa sa babaeng walang pakielaman sayo kahit lumandi ka pa.

KAYA GUYS WAG KAYONG BITTER KASE TOTOO ANG FOREVER HA? BKA HINDI NIYO PA NAKIKITA NGAYON YUNG FOREVER NIYO PERO MAG HINTAY KAYO. PARA DUN SA MGA NKA KITA NA NG TAONG MAMAHALIN NILA FOREVER ALAGAAN NIYO YAN AT WAG NIYONG PAKAWALAN

Minsan nakakapagod mag mahal pag sobra sobra na yung sakit

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